this is how we celebrate

the alpha boy just passed his 26th birthday on monday and since last weekend it's been what i deemed a "series of celebrations", only that we didn't actually do a thing.

which i suppose can be nice i guess. we just hung out over the weekend by ourselves and then i was over at his place on sunday to have a chill out dinner with his parents where we then proceeded to just laze around alone watching a b grade movie (somehow dungeons and dragons wasn't that bad when it was with him). his actual birthday itself wound up to include his friend/colleague/business partner (who i know quite well anyway so it's not a problem) as some work thing was supposed to crop up (which in the end didn't). i had various plans to celebrate his birthday which in the end didn't happen as things kept changing. but i guess all in all it wasn't too bad.

there is another celebration which has been planned for tomorrow. the one including the "other woman". she decided to buy him a ticket for a play as his birthday present and extended the invitation for me to join them of which i accepted.

things are still a lil strange with her i suppose. she actually called me on monday to chat with me for half an hour though i presume it was 'coz the alpha boy was at a work training. i know that she still calls him a lot (like my guestimate is at least a few times a week) though they don't necessarily have long meaningful conversations (i'm putting a guestimate of 5-10 mins of conversation where normally she's talking).

i'm still not thrilled bout it. at all. the alpha boy knows it. we had another passing conversation bout it where we both agreed that she's just reliant on some of her close friends (all males with girlfriends mind you) and feels the need to talk all the time and simply just spreads out her need for attention amongst the 3 of them.

i'm still not sure if it will ever get better. not unless she finds a boyfriend for that purpose. or the alpha boy just tells her that she can't be calling ever so often. that doesn't look like it's gonna happen. and it also seems like i can't exactly do a damn thing bout it either. thankfully she's nice is what i remind myself.